"We will never say that we love each other"

August 21

Finally, we will never say that we love each other. Basically, I do not know. I do not really know what love is. I feel, looking around me, that it is now more really possible. In truth, what does it take us? What does it take to all of us to be ready to say: I love you.

I'm listening to friends who have been dating guys or girls for months. Not a week. Months and in conclusion: " No. We will never be together ». Why ? Are you afraid of what? You're at this point not good with yourselves to spend a few months alone? I may be naive or unconscious, but I believe that when you let someone in your life, week after week, it's not just because you're afraid of being alone. I'm naive. I'm naive, because we live in a sort of place where we are in the act of giving ourselves a choice. But I still wonder this is used to what to leave of choice.

This is at what time are we going to say that we love each other? I imagine it will be at the moment we will feel that one of them is leaving. Let one of you see if he still has a choice, instead of just choosing to move forward together.

Maybe I can look strange to this level (anyway, I do what I want, I'm a Womance;)), but I see an interpersonal relationship, a couple, like a business. The company is born of a passion, a dream. When we start to create it is stronger than us. We think about it day and night and our eyes, nothing is impossible. In the early days, we would sometimes be ready to just give up everything to spend his whole days at to make it bear fruit, that it becomes immense rapidly. But in fact, we know it. We know very well that we must not. It is better to succeed with time than to fail when you begin. You have to go one step to that time. Come a moment where we must speak, engage. The moment when we must convince the banker to trust us. We convince him, but we are as scared as him that everything collapses, that we just do not succeed. We must convince him that first seen, all this may not be perfect, but basically it is. But to this moment, we must commit ourselves. Who will do it at our place? " I think you could borrow money, it is certain that the company will be prosperous » as well as " Are you a couple or are you just dating? It's good to go it alone in business, but comes a time when we must also accept to be helped. It's good playing the rider card alone all our life, but comes a time when finally we realize that we might be better off two. AT my eyes, to be at two is simply allowing yourself to be twice as happy. It is to allow oneself to discover more than one would have imagined. But for that, you have to be two. Must be two to want to go to the Bank, you have to be two to want to move forward.

When I observe what is happening around me, I still wonder why love is so complicated and both so simple. Once you're good together That we are as much in a glamorous restaurant on a Saturday than on a Monday. When the morning is at me that you want to talk, when the evening is at I want to talk. When you laugh at my jokes while sighing, when I laugh yours trying everything except look like a vulnerable girl. When I talk to you about things that interest you as much as Canada's position Ecuador, when I realize you're listening to me. You listen to me just because you want to. When we talk about our problems and find solutions together. Rendered here, I think someone put a little love between us. But when I look at people around, they let me believe that love is too big to exist. Just too much to be alive. The popular love that exists, I do not like it. I like better the one who arrives at the beginning. The one that makes me want to do just that, even though I know it's adolescent behavior. But it's him I love. Not him who is supposed to arrive after eight months.

Know that we, lovers of love, we love this new love. He who comes without embarrassment, fear and regret. Know that I will never make a decision to harm my company. At no time will I be persuaded by anyone or anything to make a decision that will ruin everything I have accomplished. I would never let anything destroy my business.

But in the end, we will probably never say that we love each other. Because when you will feel it, at the moment you will decide that you do not want more choices available to you, at the moment you will feel that you lose me little to little, for my part, I will probably have crossed a new love merchant.

AM.




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