Life is really big game Tetris ", you have to know how to position the big pieces with odd shapes, the rest finds its place alone almost miraculously. I chose to trust two meticulous sisters to shine our home sweet homebecause it's my choice to put my hours in my "bzniss" and cuddle my son rather than rubbing. I assume to spend the puck housekeeping, so a nice duo come to polish what my belly does not allow me to properly rub HELLO FLEXIBILITY. My yoga seems so far away ... if you only knew how I have the Bikram and the "Bikram Two Sequel" away from my reality right now! (Everything in its time)
For my little personal Tetris, I chose to delegate the layout of some songs. I hired a bead in the office that takes over the 3 / 4 from my files so that I enjoy my first moments as a mom. It allows you to have peace of mind and go OH MY GOD to get a massage on a Thursday afternoon to take time for yourself feeling guilty about just a little bit. (Motherhood does not make us completely different human beings, you know ...)
That means that when I go back to work gradually, I will be able to embark on OTHER files, make the company's business flourish in ANOTHER way and develop, thank God, have the time to develop. All thanks to the great and so precious letting go. OMMMM I'm clearly doing a high-five myself! We choose our fights, we know very well that it will not be done in the same way as if we had done it, but in the end everything will be ok. The earth will certainly not stop turning.
I am lucky to be able to trust my lover to feed the family while my first weeks with baby will certainly be full of adaptation. Skeptics? I have the happiness to have a boyfriend who cooks to give complex. I think a guy who has released a BBQ cookbook will clearly feed his family well while I'm focused on feeding the baby. Lucky me.
Ah and for my choice facing the feeding of the baby? I delegate the task to my chest. If all goes well, with a few techniques, a little luck, a lot of patience and the humility to ask for help if it's not as I wish, I should be able to go out. (Dad's support is also really important, I'm not above the support of my partner although it remains a personal choice that must come first.)
So I surrounded myself with friends, family and collaborators to succeed or at least put the odds on my side. I am not a superhero and life is too short to keep the pride of believing we do not need a TEAM OF FIRE! To go we find a team and we make the pass. To the right person. But make the Womances pass because we are never as strong as well surrounded, no matter what we do.
Ariane Lefebvre, paunchy, not bad for the future.
P. S. The baby bench is installed in the car, the hospital bags are made and it's a bit weirdit's coming for real!
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