'' Nobody promised you ''

October 21, 2015

Nobody in you had promised

Nobody promises that it will be the right one. There is no one who has told you and promised: Yes. It's him'' good. '' That guy ''. Unfortunately and inevitably, we ask ourselves too many questions. Because the probabilities were there. 50% chance that it works, 50% not. We all react in different ways. Those who have less confidence in them will tend to look for what they did wrong. The yolos will not ask any questions and will go to another call. The confident will say that it was just not good. There are, however, times when, no matter what type of personality we are, we are more vulnerable.

In different moments of our life, the human being may be more vulnerable. On the other hand, vulnerability does not forgive everything. We can meet people who normally would not have been our kind of person. By surprise, we get carried away by the game. We realize that we place a lot of importance on a person, a situation thate would surely did not arrive normally. We do not know not why, it's uncontrollable.

It's nice to hear everywhere that you have to be tough and not be fooled, but that does not mean you do not have feelings. Never let a situation or a person let you believe that you have been too close to your feelings, which equals today: being intense. Being intense nowadays rhymes too often with testifying what one feels. I prefer to be close to my feelings than to hide them. I like to surprise friendsi do not understand what I live, I prefer to cause fear in someone rather than ever knowing what I felt. Because today, if we text to Someone: "I'm good with you." You come, in good French, to shoot yourself in the foot. Do you know what? I do not mind shooting myself in the foot. I love making things different. I often wonder what's the use of doing the same thing as everyone else? Professionally and even lovingly, I'm told too often: "You should be more conventional. It will scare you. You see, it makes me feel the opposite. I will not be blamed for not being exactly what I want.

Also cliché that it may be, it is true that we have only one life and it is not worth living with a " if I had done so, it would have happened what? I made the most difficult decisions of my life with my feelings, and today I do not regret anything. I would say that I am rather proud. I often say to people around me, " You are the most loyal person you will have in your life. " When everyone will be proud or when everyone will be disappointed, only you will be left. And that's true. Whether in love, in friendship or professionally, the percentages are there. It's sometimes hard and complicated à assume, but it may just be that you were not due. Of course, it's when the heart is involved that everything is worse. When we thought that everything was reciprocal, but ultimately not at all. When we had testified our famous feelings, but finally, the conclusion is that we think we have failed. Think again. With our heart, we do not fail. This is only a small part of a small chapter of your life that is closing. It may be the right one, and if so, life is so well done you will see. And it may just be that it was not good, even if all the signs, all the tralala were there. We may have been wrong and there is no point in putting energy in it understand why. Because the probabilities were there. 50% chance that it works, 50% not. But I repeat: never let a situation or a person let you believe that you have been too close to your feelings. This person would probably like to be so close to his.

AM

Photo credit : EH photography




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