I would really like to tell you that it will be easy, but I will never be able to lie to you.
This is a phrase that I often repeat these days. Regardless of the reasons for why and how, I am surrounded by many people who are in pain. Why ? Because our expectations of life are too high. You're living, the one with whom you share everything, she does her best, but she's like us, she's not perfect. If it's not perfect, nothing can be perfect.
I love the idea of constantly keeping this sentence in mind. The more I think about it, the more I work. I believe that our goals of '' perfect life '' are often far from what it really should be. We can put this on the back that everything is too accessible, we can also blame social networks or we can simply make the difference. Stop and enjoy. There is no perfect relationship, there will be no perfect job, there will be no perfect family, there will be just adjustments. Adjustments that will make you appreciate everything you have.
To all those who are broken-hearted, the good news is that a heart is not like a broken window, we do not have to change it so that it regains its initial joy. The heart is the key organ of your body, so it is essential that it is healthy. A bit like the rest of your body, it has a memory so obviously it protects itself if it has already hurt. You must also give him time to recover. An unhealed injury is worse than a new injury. Do not face a ski slope if one of your boots is not attached.
To all those who find the days long, try to see what is possible for you to do. Experiment, read about what would interest you. There is no one who will change jobs for you, just as there is still no one who will inject you into the veins of new abilities to suddenly become director of a multinational. Be realistic and imaginative. There is absolutely nothing impossible, there are no dreams too big. There are only hundreds of obstacles. Go step by step, but do not wait to be sad. Do not wait to no longer believe in yourself. And if it's already done, it's never too late. Do not aim 1000km forward, aim one pride at a time.
To all those who leave their relationship tomorrow morning, you already know: love is hard. It's hard because it's not perfect. And if it was perfect, nobody would like it. If you are lucky enough to have a relationship based on respect, it deserves not to be pressed down to the left. It is not sweeter next to it, it is often less so. When you want to let go, remember that nothing is perfect. I, we women, we tend to be very demanding. "It's never your business" we hear often. It will often be found too late that the man was not wrong. Do not demand perfection. You are not perfect, they are not perfect. In this case, how can you think to be beautiful and perfect for two?
To all those who do not control the situation, those who can not do anything to change the conclusion, to you I have no idea what to say to you. I'm pretty sure you do not care about my life stories. I would do the same. Life is not perfect, but it is well done. It is made in a mold where the older we get, the more we surround ourselves with people who are there to celebrate our birthday, but who are also there when the light at the end of the tunnel seems as impossible as finding a cure for all diseases . To all those who are around someone who will not find this light soon, signal your presence without saying anything, hold her hand even if you are 1000km from her, show him that you are convinced that he there is a cure for everything. You just have to give yourself some time.
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